1:36:52love is blind for some, unforunately
1:36:54well you have to imagine theyre also not telling you the full story thats why
1:36:57its also hard to keep reminding them its out of ur control at some point
1:36:58some people get stuck in bad relationships they can’t get out of unfortunately
1:37:11that's true shan :_lucubSip:
1:37:37that’s totally fair, I don’t mind story repeaters, if its still on ur mind it might be important to you
1:37:52hi boss! my birthday is in a few days, can you say happy birthday to me?
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1:37:52I only tell my friends to break up with their partner when it's not healthy for them anymore and the partner is just making them miserable/worse.
1:37:53i hate talking about my problems in general:_lucubDeadge:
1:37:53it’s a hard spot to be in; watching someone you care about constantly getting hurt
1:38:13it can get exhausting when it is repeated so i try not to repeat and get over with it
1:38:26the ones asking for advice but not listening to it?
1:38:26you give them advice but they don’t use it
1:38:27ok but i literally didn't tell her any problem bc i dont do that. she just wanted me to break up with him :face_holding_back_tears:
1:38:39sometimes they dont want advice, they just want someone to hear them out but its easier to say youre asking for advice
1:38:48it's really tiring... been there, done that...
1:38:51i like friendships where it’s never awkward no matter how long you’ve been apart
1:38:52some ppl js wanna be heard than need advice it depends
1:38:54understandable :_lucubOMEGALUL:
1:38:56sometimes they don't do what you advice because it's not the words they want to hear
1:39:01they be doing the exact opposite of our advice PLS
1:39:02give advice once and leave it to them whether to take it or not