2:52:19I think it depends on each person tolerance boundary, and depend on what kind of bad stuff they did
2:52:25it does take a while to change that perception
2:52:38Thats exactly what i think too, there is an extent. Ppl are likely to not try if no one thinks they can
2:52:44well u do it for yourself tho why does it matter
2:52:53expectations really destroy the potential of so many things
2:52:57:_lucubHeart2::_lucubHeart2::_lucubPat:
2:52:58choose what you think is right :man_cook:
2:53:07and bad behaviours are a product usually fo someone environment which is always adapting anyway
2:53:11positive reinforcement helps i think
2:53:16idk if it's most people tho, maybe it's only most on our mind
2:53:26I think people can change absolutely but can everyone change? no
2:53:29you change for your own good not for others so:_lucubSip:what other think is not really important at some point
2:53:31yeah if you keep saying "no I will continue seeing you based on how you were previously" then they will continue being that person since no one expect them to be a better person
2:53:37you know they are better than that but yeah it's a lot of self work for them too
2:53:48i think everyone can change they just have to want to change
2:53:53thats how I understood the question lmao
2:53:55I've made some mistakes in the past, and consider myself a bad person. I'm trying to be good but I'm not sure if that'll make any difference