23:32It's less scary than an email for me lmao
23:38I mean as long as I you don’t follow up with “I need to ask you something”
23:42I mean, you messaging in the first place is like "Why is she writing me in the first place? Did I do something wrong?"
23:46Nothing to be scared of!
24:00Ok that is terrifying
24:01:slightly_smiling_face: :backhand_index_pointing_left: What is there to be scared of
24:03Was just thinking that lol oh no
24:04:_sweatwon::_sweatwon::_sweatwon:
24:08annnnnnnnnnd sweating buckets :_scaredwon::_scaredwon::_scaredwon:
24:10Oh yea, the talk one skips a beat
24:10Haewon can we talk...
24:10not the need to talk :loudly_crying_face:
24:11You can't be scared to lose something unless you already have it
24:11"Can we talk" is scary even face to face
24:12That is a crippling fear of mine
24:16That’s my worst nightmare :_sweatwon::_crywon:
24:17canon event incoming kinda message
24:25I’m more terrified now
24:28solution: "can we talk (positive)"
24:38There's negative connotation with "we need to talk."
24:41Especially from ones partner
24:45How about we chat a bit
24:57oh god that would put my anxiety on like full alert. id be like "what did i do??"
24:58I would rather someone just ask the question instead of asking if they can asking something… ya know