40:59Stop overthinking things in essence
41:04yeah that's what i always do
41:07what is an open ended question?
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41:07You may astound a woman by paying attention to what she's talking about and pretending to be interested
41:07ask her about the weather :_lumiClown:
41:07@photo9684 he gets it.
41:11Keep it to one word responses
41:13Hi Lumi!:face-red-heart-shape:
41:17so how do you like things?
41:17:thinking_face::thinking_face:
41:21Don't be a try hard, its hard for males in modern dating these days:face-blue-smiling:
41:25Use CIA conversational techniques. They work pretty well.
41:30That sounds egotistical
41:31talk about the weather
41:32that doesn't work too well either
41:32Ask her if she has a issue with water weight
41:34do you like bread? I love bread
41:39so what does it means when a woman only talks to you about her monetary problems?
41:40Give her a little cheese, as a treat
41:40just follow social cues and don't be dumb
41:41Don't tell her about vtubers.
41:41be yourself and talk about topics that interest you and ask questions that you really find interesting. main thing is "Be Yourself"
41:42get cozy in the silence
41:47let her ask questions about you, and then use it to ask questions about her
41:52never offer up information about yourself
41:53ya. just look up CIA tactics and do that
41:54what do you mean, people love small talk surely :_lumiClown:
41:56Give her classified government information
41:58what do you mean by that?
41:59talk about self and don't give her time to speak
42:00But that runs the risk of looking like someone who only talks about themselves
42:03Hi Lumi :waving_hand:
42:03its all a give and take
42:03If you're trying to get an introvert, and if you're an extrovert, talk, and then allow time for her to talk if you are done, and then.. Let it build, Like a Lego set.