3:05:48No, you must spend the equivalent of a down payment on a house!
3:05:49pippa it literally is just something that has been marketed as something people want, making them believe they want it
3:05:49Wedding are required to at least 2x the price
3:05:50weddings overcharge everything
3:05:50That's why people hire generic event companies for weddings to save loads of money.
3:05:50thats why the people i know are doing exactly what youre suggesting
3:05:50There's a difference between a wedding and the huge wedding industry
3:05:51I get that they want the ceremony before he goes away.
3:05:53parties cost money regardless
3:05:53Weddings are absolutely a scam. So are the rings.
3:05:54buddy of mine did a small wedding and traveled to 3 countries with his wife instead
3:05:54They kind of are, people feel obligated to spend money they don't have
3:05:54you have to have a fancy cake
3:05:55boomer would get married 4-5 times and it was the only time people got together
3:05:56They do. It's called a reception.
3:05:56no a wedding is that plus a fancy party after
3:05:56Pippa, why do you hate our heteronormative economy?
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3:05:56its a covenant between your partner and god so people saw dollar signs
3:05:58Objectively Correct. but most woman would not agree
3:05:59Yeah, I have a bud who spent 6 figures on his wedding and I'm like, Bro, buy a rental property or something instead
3:05:59Just get a marriage certificate and have a party and everyone else will have a better time
3:05:59That upcharging for weddings is the "I have to deal with the bride" tax
3:06:00If you book a venue for a party and don't mention that its for a wedding, that violates the contract because weddings are upcharged.
3:06:01the wedding is for the bride to flex
3:06:03or better yet, a small party with family and friends that you actually care about