4:03:22both are bad but i think 2, them *feeling* bad and then putting it on you to do something is aggravating
4:03:24both should not be bailed by JULIAAAAAA
4:03:26damn i just came. yall good?
4:03:27or my favorite, victim-blaming
4:03:28I can ignore 2 pleading, 1 isnt even sorry
4:03:30number 2 is a guilt trip to mitigate responsibility
4:03:31Yeah, that's psycho behaviour
4:03:332 is worse, at least you can take 1 at face value lol
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4:03:35They call it victim olympics for a reason
4:03:41someone who feels bad can change
4:03:42them wanting you to comfort them for something they did feels disgusting
4:03:42Just comes off as controlling with 2
4:03:45Feeling bad for yourself is such woosie behavior
4:03:522 is insufferable and harder to confront
4:03:541 in this scenario is explicitly dishonest
4:03:561 is a liar but 2 is way more narcissistic idk man
4:03:58either one leads to me not speaking to them ever again lol
4:04:00oh yeah, that's it right there
4:04:091 you can assume they were just ignorant. 2 will outright back stav
4:04:11I gotta say liars are worse to me
4:04:142 I can deal with because they're legitimately feeling bad
4:04:15It's just a manipulation tactic
4:04:172 is giving pick me girl energy