11:12That’s would make most people uncomfortable!!
11:17^^^^^ what soli said
11:21nah that's just weird, I think nobody's ever tried to tell them that that shit's weird
11:28i dont wear a certain top around the office anymore
11:35so its one of those shirts with a built in bra
11:45i got it in japan ages ago bc its super comfy and i dont have to wear a bro
11:48oh no, they asked you why? lord
11:59Telling someone you're uncomfortable, especially after knowing them for years, should NOT be an issue. If you're worried about them getting upset about it, they'd be WAY out of line, nothing lost.
12:02did they sexualize the shirt?
12:15i have one those too,
12:16but i choose to wear one anyways when i wear that shirt to the office
12:20just to avoid like highbeams
12:24i dont love where this seems to be going
12:25the office is cold as hell so
12:36so i dont mind comments about my body
12:50:_aiaBURN:ARISE AIADMIRERS:_aiaBURN:
12:51like if youre my bestie then you can make a comment
13:10like mod chan and high school bestie are the only ones allowed to comment on my more sensitive bits
13:22but like even if a rando went 'oh girl that waist is snatched'
13:25FINE BY ME!!!! THATS COOL!!!
13:29tell them this is ur no no square
13:38yeah its different when there’s the potential threat of violence behind it
13:48but if you have a history of making weird sex jokes and we are NOT that close, then no, you dont get to make the comment, im sorry
13:57you have to work your way up to and earn certain interaction rights
14:08so basically bvecause the shirt has a built in bra and im wearing another one underneath, the chest looks a smidge bigger
14:16If they're commenting on your body, that's harassment, you need to go to HR.
14:20i usually hide it under a cardigan, but i was coming back from lunch wiht modchan