3:56:29yeah thats what embarassed is
3:56:32Fishman would say "wtf are you talking about"
3:56:33pippa antagonize chat :_pippaSmug::_pippaSmug:
3:56:37im so confused why this is a bad thing
3:56:37i feel it's more about having standards for yourself than others. it's more "ego" in the freudian sense than it is the conventional one.
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3:56:39nah we're just confused about your being ashamed for feeling a natural emotion
3:56:39but if you think about it, it's always the people with massive egos that don't feel embarrassed by anything
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3:56:41you're overthinking it you're allowed to feel bad
3:56:43and if you don't, then dance
3:56:44This makes me think of the "there are no selfless good deeds." Even if technically true, it's an unhealthy mentality
3:56:45do you mean fixation of being embarrassed :thinking_face:
3:56:46Never admit fault, its not you it's the other person
3:56:47You're right Pippa, I shouldn't be embarrassed by my gamer bucket
3:56:47I'M NOT GETTING DEFENSIVE, YOUR GETTING DEFENSIVE! lol jk
3:56:48better to not apologize ever
3:56:50it's is not ego, it is dignity
3:56:50never apologize ONLY DOUBLE DOWN
3:56:52your opinions sound right to me
3:56:54be the ID who you are but let ego define the edges of acceptability
3:56:57you are embarrased? man up nerd - Pippa 2026
3:56:58an insincere apology doesn't mean anything
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3:57:01you're kind of right, I think you are struggling to verbalize it properly though
3:57:03youre entitled to your WRONG oppinion then pips
3:57:16Self sabotage is when the shame is internalised
3:57:21pippa you're wrong about this embarrassment thing, you should feel bad about it and apologize to us for being wrong
3:57:22ego is not pride, its fine to be embarrassed, to many people have no shame
3:57:28embarrassed is not the same as shame
3:57:32No, embarrasment and shame keeps us in check and allow us to conform to social norms. Embarrasment is how you know the person is aware that the did something bad, or something that made you feel bad.
3:57:33everyone should have some amount of pirde though
3:57:34not pride or humility it's linked to belief
3:57:36@wd8man596 Clio wouldn't get it