18:32i was like 'always sex jokes with you, huh?'
18:38sometimes i wish i could be so blissfully unconcerned with how i am perceived
18:50like as a soft nudge without confronting because like i said-- skin of paper and bones of glass
18:55they're prob not taking your comments seriously and assume you're egging them on
18:55like by far the most sensitive person ive ever met
18:56Aia, I know you don't like rockin the boat, but sometimes that's the only way to get the shark off it.
18:58they're acting like high school boys
19:09the moan thing with the card reader? are they like teenagers or what?
19:19and they were like 'yeah, its my coping mechanism for my trauma'
19:24@cypher291 ooo i like that one
19:24WHAT DO I EVEN DO FOR THATTTTTT
19:26If they can't handle being told not to make sexual comments in the workplace that's on them
19:30I agree that should be reasonably clear, but it's still not direct enough. You either have to confront them, painful as that may be for either or both of you, or you have to delegate it to management.
19:31??? go to a therapist???
19:38Okay that's one hell of an answer lmao
19:51????????????????????????????
19:51trauma is not an excuse to be an asshole like that
19:53coping mechanism is moaning, that is one weird mechanism
19:56if they got trauma why not get a therapist????
19:58pay a bum to mug them outside
20:02@sugarqbs Thank you I worked hard on it.
20:06your trauma doesn't give you the right to make ppeople around you uncomfortable on the daily
20:07they need a better coping mechanism, lord:_aiaPRAY:
20:09yeah, i think you may have to be direct with them goobie
20:10Not to be too blunt, but the fact that you KEEP going out with them is telling them implicitly that no matter how much you dislike their conduct, it isn't a dealbreaker. Make it a dealbreaker.
20:12you be uncomfy isnt the greatest :<
20:16find another coping method
20:19can you subtweet them on slack or teams?
20:20i feel like atp just run a passive recording nah?
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20:27theyre gonna keep doing it unless you literally tell them to stop :<
20:46like i can just tolerate it tbh
20:50but like something about today was not it